Abstract psychology masters article James wrote: sow an action, reap a habit; sow a habit, reap a character; sow a character, reap a destiny. For success, the 35-year-old used to take the necessary habits of 9.
】 【body good habit to make the unexpected success. I think the good habit of following a successful nine essential:
(1) the good habit of positive thinking there was a scholar
Beijing exam the third time, living in a regular live store. Two days before the exam he has done three dreams: The first dream is the dream of their own kinds of cabbage in the wall, the second dream is a rainy day, he wore hats also an umbrella, and the third dream is the dream with love cousin lying naked together, but Beikaozhebei. Linkao the occasion to do this dream, it seems that some meaning, and the scholar's dream and the next day to find fortune. Fortune-telling one, shooting the thigh, said: Think about it, growing vegetables is not high on the wall futile it? Wearing hats umbrellas not bother it? With his cousin lying on a bed naked, but back to back, not the game is it? Shop owner is very odd, and asked: How to go home the day?
I would think, you're going to comprehensive examinations. Think about it, the wall is not high vegetable species? Not wearing umbrella hats double insurance? With your cousin back to back in bed naked, not saying you should stand up to the time it?
can see the thing itself does not affect people, people only by their own views on the impact of things, people must change the passive habits of thinking, to develop positive thinking habits.
How should develop a positive thinking habit? When you are in the process of achieving goals in the face of specific work and tasks, your brain removed the you develop the habit of positive thinking.
(2) a good and efficient work habits of a person
strong desire to succeed, then, will be detrimental to the success of the pieces used, and integration into the mediocrity of daily life. So, of decision behavior, behavior form habits, habits decide character, character determines destiny. You want to succeed, we must develop efficient work habits.
used to determine whether your work is efficient, if conducive to the successful, I think this standard can be used to test: that the prosecution province of their own work, whether you are worried about unfinished work, that is, anxious feeling. If you should do and not do, or do not yet finished, and often feel anxious for this, it proves that you need to change work habits, to find and develop an efficient work habits.
start from the office to work efficiently:
1) Know your energetic day period. People usually around 9 o'clock in the morning works best, you can put the most difficult time to complete the work.
2) a day focused on one or two hours to process urgent work at hand, do not answer the phone, no meeting undisturbed. This can do more with less.
3) immediately reply to important messages, will be unimportant discarded. If any accumulation of piles of them, but more time-consuming.
4) make a list of tasks, all of the projects and the efficiency of the manual written in the agreement. Manual must be on hand to help with the efficiency of their own according to plan. The behavior of one person a day, about only 5% were non-habitual, while the remaining 95% of the behavior is habitual.
5) learn to efficiently use a spare minute to read something, or the idea of a file, not a trance or dream.
6) reduce the call back time. If you only need to pass a message may wish to send a SMS.
7) on a call may be aware, so that you look forward to receiving the phone call can quickly find all the required material, do not have to look at rummage chaos.
8) to learn the skills of searching the Internet efficiently to save time online searching. You often have to be collected in order to browse the site at any time to find.
9) use the Internet streamline business travel arrangements. Most hotels and flights to online inquiries and reservations.
10) can appoint someone else as long as circumstances permit sharing of work. Hands-on will make them tired, but never finish. May wish to ask my colleagues to help, or assistant to put more efforts.
11) to do a flexible schedule, when you need can be busy in the loaf. For example, in overtime at noon, and then leave the office an hour early to the gym, or work 10 hours a day, and then went to an appointment on Friday to see a doctor.
12) before leaving the office listed in the inventory of the work the next day, so the next morning case, we can go all out.
program used to equal its success.
plan everything the Americans have named John Goddard, when he was 15 years old, put their life out to do a list, called Orderly arranged in this list, he gave himself to be overcome in the 127 target. For example, explore the Nile, climb the Himalayas, reading Shakespeare, writing a book and so on. 44 years later, he superhuman courage and extraordinary perseverance, hard struggle with the fate, the last according to plan, step by step to achieve the 106 goal, to become a highly successful film producer, writer and speaker.
old Chinese saying:
(3) to develop the good habit of exercise
used to enhance health awareness
plan, equivalent to its success. If you want a career, you must have a healthy body; want to be healthy, first of all to have health awareness.
I know a university teacher, the body has been very healthy. Earlier, we often play together. Turning to the physical condition of each, he said, occasionally a slight kidney discomfort. We persuaded him to the hospital to check, but he counting on good health and did not mind. Until then feel more pain, the love of talent forced him to check. Diagnosis was of advanced kidney cancer. Despite chemotherapy, surgery and other treatment measures, but was unable to save the life and death only 39 years old. Earlier, His license school housing allocation, professional title unsatisfactory, the mood has been depressed, his illness and the emotions, but if his health conscious, as soon as possible to check, can completely prevent, eliminate risk in not sprout. Health awareness is poor, so the price he paid with his life.
how to implement the health consciousness? The first one is to have the life, health, awareness of the first, with that awareness, you will care of your body, your mental, and not arbitrarily ravaging his body. Second, we must be careful to take some relevant knowledge. Third is to make to have a response mechanism on the body: on a regular basis to the hospital for physical examination; the body does not feel the place, should try to go to hospital for an examination; in the conditional case, you can ask a health care practitioner, to make their own health advice.
planned to exercise the importance of physical exercise has been increasingly accepted by people, but I feel that many people only stay in the importance of awareness stage, and the lack of appropriate action. I think that the exercise should not only working posture can lead to specific diseases destination corresponding to the appropriate disease prevention and treatment, it should also take as a fun exercise, to develop the habit of exercising.
because of the need, I often work with clients, and in dealing with the sudden buzz about things, which to some extent play the role of exercise, but, I also swim once or twice a week, to ensure there is sufficient energy to do work, to enjoy life.
physical exercise, the same as to strive for success, Guizaijianchi.
addition to the above two points to pay attention to diet, reasonable diet, and pay attention to develop good health habits, and develop healthy habits are an integral part.
In short, the health Health achievements of their own.
(4) the good habit of continuous learning
Harry Truman was president in American history known. He did not read the university, had to farm, then run a cloth store, has gone through many failures, and when he finally government posts, has been over Pentecost. But he has a good habit of constantly reading. Many years of reading, so Truman's extremely knowledgeable. He read a roll of a roll of the In addition, he read all of William Shakespeare's plays and sonnets and so on.
Truman's extensive reading and the resultant wealth of knowledge to enable him to lead the United States survive the end of World War II period, and to quickly enter the post-war prosperity of the country. He knows how to read is to become the first leader of the foundation. Study also made him in the face of controversial, difficult issues, can quickly make the right decision. For example, in the 20th century, 50 years he withstood pressure to bring people respected war hero, General Douglas MacArthur dismissed.
his motto was: Because they know that a mastery of knowledge is the master key to open the door to the future. The world's 500 largest enterprises of the CEO at least about 30 each week to read magazines or books information, more than 100 a month to read the magazine, more than a year to read 1000.
the world's 500 largest enterprises of the CEO at least about 30 each week to read magazines or books information, more than 100 a month to read the magazine, more than a year to read 1000. If you read 15 minutes a day, you have probably read in a book within a month. At least one year you will read 12 books, and 10 years later, you will have read 120 books in total! Think about it 15 minutes a day need to take time, you can easily read 120 books, which can help you in all aspects of life become more wealthy. If you spend twice the time, which is half an hour, then will be able to read 25 books a year - 10 years is 250!
I feel like every successful person before the age of 35, at least read a book a month or two magazines.
(5) the good habit of humility
no reason not to humble a person. Compared in terms of human knowledge, Renhe Bo scholars can only be failed.
famous scientist Faraday later years, the state prepared to grant him knighthood, in recognition of his physics, chemistry outstanding contribution, but which he refused. Faraday retirement, is still frequented by a number of laboratories doing chores. One day, a young man to laboratory experiments. He is sweeping the Faraday said: Old man? Young man exclaimed: You, Mr. Faraday is great!
(6) made a good habit
have any success has a remarkable self-control.
Three Kingdoms period, Zhuge Liang Shu Prime Minister personally led the army of the Northern Expedition of Shu Wei, Sima Yi took the city off the truce, to ignore the attitude of dealing with Zhuge Liang. In his view, Shu Army struck all the way, back-up supply must be inadequate, as long as the delay time, the strength of consumption Shu Army, will be able to seize the opportunity to defeat the enemy.
tactical silence Zhuge Liang Sima Yi knew the stakes, to send troops to the city several times under the Ma Zhen, an attempt to provoke Wei Bing, a decisive battle to lure out of the city Sima Yi, but Sima Yi has been on hold. So by attempting to rally Zhuge Liang, Sima Yi sent a sent a woman to dress, and Xiushuyifeng said: If you are a sense of shame of the man, to come out and Shu Army at war, if not, you put this woman's clothes.
rally a few months, Zhuge Liang passed away unfortunately, the military, Shu Army rudderless, quietly retreat, Sima Yi win without fighting.
irrepressible emotions, often wounding and Sima Yi can not hurt if the patient had a moment of anger, out of the city fight, then perhaps history will be rewritten.
modern society, more and more people are faced with the temptation, if people lack self-control, then the temptation will be led by the nose, deviated from the track of success.
(7) humor, the good habit of
It is said that men need humor, like a woman needs is as important as a pretty face.
men need humor, like a woman needs is as important as a pretty face. Abraham Lincoln the 16th President of the United States looks ugly, but he never taboo that, on the contrary, he often took his own appearance humor joke. In the presidential campaign, his opponents attacked his duplicity, intrigue and conspire. Lincoln listened to his face, pointing, said: If I had another face, I will use now this one?
not sent a man without humor, but the good humor of the man must be a good person, and good humor is a woman of rare animals.
(8) the good habit of
smile smile is generous, quiet performance, but also exchanges of passes.
the world famous Hilton Hotel, the founder of the Hilton beginning a business, after years of exploration, finally found a simple, easy, do not spend the capital of the business secret - a smile. Since then, he asked all staff: the hotel itself, no matter what difficulties encountered, the Hilton hotel waiter smiles the sun will always belong to the customer. This bunch of
developed countries in Europe and America, people have to nod and smile to meet, so that people feel very warm to each other. In China, if you are in the street Miss Xiang Yige smile, then you may be said to be Learning from the West, let us extend each other smile.
ancient times, dedicated to all successful people one of the most important quality.
(9) work, and enjoy the good habit of
dedicated people who want to succeed is to treat the basic requirements, a dedicated hard for people not engaged in his work make a difference. American Standard Oil
Achilles Butler has called the small staff, began and no cause for special attention. His professionalism particularly strong, always pay attention to maintain and promote corporate reputation. The total travel time in a hotel do not forget to write in his signature on the bottom, forget the words to write it. To this end, my colleagues call him This is the company's chairman and Rockefeller knew, he invited to dinner Achilles Butler, and called on staff to learn from him. Later, Achilles Butler became the second chairman of Standard Oil.
】 【body good habit to make the unexpected success. I think the good habit of following a successful nine essential:
(1) the good habit of positive thinking there was a scholar
Beijing exam the third time, living in a regular live store. Two days before the exam he has done three dreams: The first dream is the dream of their own kinds of cabbage in the wall, the second dream is a rainy day, he wore hats also an umbrella, and the third dream is the dream with love cousin lying naked together, but Beikaozhebei. Linkao the occasion to do this dream, it seems that some meaning, and the scholar's dream and the next day to find fortune. Fortune-telling one, shooting the thigh, said: Think about it, growing vegetables is not high on the wall futile it? Wearing hats umbrellas not bother it? With his cousin lying on a bed naked, but back to back, not the game is it? Shop owner is very odd, and asked: How to go home the day?
I would think, you're going to comprehensive examinations. Think about it, the wall is not high vegetable species? Not wearing umbrella hats double insurance? With your cousin back to back in bed naked, not saying you should stand up to the time it?
can see the thing itself does not affect people, people only by their own views on the impact of things, people must change the passive habits of thinking, to develop positive thinking habits.
How should develop a positive thinking habit? When you are in the process of achieving goals in the face of specific work and tasks, your brain removed the you develop the habit of positive thinking.
(2) a good and efficient work habits of a person
strong desire to succeed, then, will be detrimental to the success of the pieces used, and integration into the mediocrity of daily life. So, of decision behavior, behavior form habits, habits decide character, character determines destiny. You want to succeed, we must develop efficient work habits.
used to determine whether your work is efficient, if conducive to the successful, I think this standard can be used to test: that the prosecution province of their own work, whether you are worried about unfinished work, that is, anxious feeling. If you should do and not do, or do not yet finished, and often feel anxious for this, it proves that you need to change work habits, to find and develop an efficient work habits.
start from the office to work efficiently:
1) Know your energetic day period. People usually around 9 o'clock in the morning works best, you can put the most difficult time to complete the work.
2) a day focused on one or two hours to process urgent work at hand, do not answer the phone, no meeting undisturbed. This can do more with less.
3) immediately reply to important messages, will be unimportant discarded. If any accumulation of piles of them, but more time-consuming.
4) make a list of tasks, all of the projects and the efficiency of the manual written in the agreement. Manual must be on hand to help with the efficiency of their own according to plan. The behavior of one person a day, about only 5% were non-habitual, while the remaining 95% of the behavior is habitual.
5) learn to efficiently use a spare minute to read something, or the idea of a file, not a trance or dream.
6) reduce the call back time. If you only need to pass a message may wish to send a SMS.
7) on a call may be aware, so that you look forward to receiving the phone call can quickly find all the required material, do not have to look at rummage chaos.
8) to learn the skills of searching the Internet efficiently to save time online searching. You often have to be collected in order to browse the site at any time to find.
9) use the Internet streamline business travel arrangements. Most hotels and flights to online inquiries and reservations.
10) can appoint someone else as long as circumstances permit sharing of work. Hands-on will make them tired, but never finish. May wish to ask my colleagues to help, or assistant to put more efforts.
11) to do a flexible schedule, when you need can be busy in the loaf. For example, in overtime at noon, and then leave the office an hour early to the gym, or work 10 hours a day, and then went to an appointment on Friday to see a doctor.
12) before leaving the office listed in the inventory of the work the next day, so the next morning case, we can go all out.
program used to equal its success.
plan everything the Americans have named John Goddard, when he was 15 years old, put their life out to do a list, called Orderly arranged in this list, he gave himself to be overcome in the 127 target. For example, explore the Nile, climb the Himalayas, reading Shakespeare, writing a book and so on. 44 years later, he superhuman courage and extraordinary perseverance, hard struggle with the fate, the last according to plan, step by step to achieve the 106 goal, to become a highly successful film producer, writer and speaker.
old Chinese saying:
(3) to develop the good habit of exercise
used to enhance health awareness
plan, equivalent to its success. If you want a career, you must have a healthy body; want to be healthy, first of all to have health awareness.
I know a university teacher, the body has been very healthy. Earlier, we often play together. Turning to the physical condition of each, he said, occasionally a slight kidney discomfort. We persuaded him to the hospital to check, but he counting on good health and did not mind. Until then feel more pain, the love of talent forced him to check. Diagnosis was of advanced kidney cancer. Despite chemotherapy, surgery and other treatment measures, but was unable to save the life and death only 39 years old. Earlier, His license school housing allocation, professional title unsatisfactory, the mood has been depressed, his illness and the emotions, but if his health conscious, as soon as possible to check, can completely prevent, eliminate risk in not sprout. Health awareness is poor, so the price he paid with his life.
how to implement the health consciousness? The first one is to have the life, health, awareness of the first, with that awareness, you will care of your body, your mental, and not arbitrarily ravaging his body. Second, we must be careful to take some relevant knowledge. Third is to make to have a response mechanism on the body: on a regular basis to the hospital for physical examination; the body does not feel the place, should try to go to hospital for an examination; in the conditional case, you can ask a health care practitioner, to make their own health advice.
planned to exercise the importance of physical exercise has been increasingly accepted by people, but I feel that many people only stay in the importance of awareness stage, and the lack of appropriate action. I think that the exercise should not only working posture can lead to specific diseases destination corresponding to the appropriate disease prevention and treatment, it should also take as a fun exercise, to develop the habit of exercising.
because of the need, I often work with clients, and in dealing with the sudden buzz about things, which to some extent play the role of exercise, but, I also swim once or twice a week, to ensure there is sufficient energy to do work, to enjoy life.
physical exercise, the same as to strive for success, Guizaijianchi.
addition to the above two points to pay attention to diet, reasonable diet, and pay attention to develop good health habits, and develop healthy habits are an integral part.
In short, the health Health achievements of their own.
(4) the good habit of continuous learning
Harry Truman was president in American history known. He did not read the university, had to farm, then run a cloth store, has gone through many failures, and when he finally government posts, has been over Pentecost. But he has a good habit of constantly reading. Many years of reading, so Truman's extremely knowledgeable. He read a roll of a roll of the In addition, he read all of William Shakespeare's plays and sonnets and so on.
Truman's extensive reading and the resultant wealth of knowledge to enable him to lead the United States survive the end of World War II period, and to quickly enter the post-war prosperity of the country. He knows how to read is to become the first leader of the foundation. Study also made him in the face of controversial, difficult issues, can quickly make the right decision. For example, in the 20th century, 50 years he withstood pressure to bring people respected war hero, General Douglas MacArthur dismissed.
his motto was: Because they know that a mastery of knowledge is the master key to open the door to the future. The world's 500 largest enterprises of the CEO at least about 30 each week to read magazines or books information, more than 100 a month to read the magazine, more than a year to read 1000.
the world's 500 largest enterprises of the CEO at least about 30 each week to read magazines or books information, more than 100 a month to read the magazine, more than a year to read 1000. If you read 15 minutes a day, you have probably read in a book within a month. At least one year you will read 12 books, and 10 years later, you will have read 120 books in total! Think about it 15 minutes a day need to take time, you can easily read 120 books, which can help you in all aspects of life become more wealthy. If you spend twice the time, which is half an hour, then will be able to read 25 books a year - 10 years is 250!
I feel like every successful person before the age of 35, at least read a book a month or two magazines.
(5) the good habit of humility
no reason not to humble a person. Compared in terms of human knowledge, Renhe Bo scholars can only be failed.
famous scientist Faraday later years, the state prepared to grant him knighthood, in recognition of his physics, chemistry outstanding contribution, but which he refused. Faraday retirement, is still frequented by a number of laboratories doing chores. One day, a young man to laboratory experiments. He is sweeping the Faraday said: Old man? Young man exclaimed: You, Mr. Faraday is great!
(6) made a good habit
have any success has a remarkable self-control.
Three Kingdoms period, Zhuge Liang Shu Prime Minister personally led the army of the Northern Expedition of Shu Wei, Sima Yi took the city off the truce, to ignore the attitude of dealing with Zhuge Liang. In his view, Shu Army struck all the way, back-up supply must be inadequate, as long as the delay time, the strength of consumption Shu Army, will be able to seize the opportunity to defeat the enemy.
tactical silence Zhuge Liang Sima Yi knew the stakes, to send troops to the city several times under the Ma Zhen, an attempt to provoke Wei Bing, a decisive battle to lure out of the city Sima Yi, but Sima Yi has been on hold. So by attempting to rally Zhuge Liang, Sima Yi sent a sent a woman to dress, and Xiushuyifeng said: If you are a sense of shame of the man, to come out and Shu Army at war, if not, you put this woman's clothes.
rally a few months, Zhuge Liang passed away unfortunately, the military, Shu Army rudderless, quietly retreat, Sima Yi win without fighting.
irrepressible emotions, often wounding and Sima Yi can not hurt if the patient had a moment of anger, out of the city fight, then perhaps history will be rewritten.
modern society, more and more people are faced with the temptation, if people lack self-control, then the temptation will be led by the nose, deviated from the track of success.
(7) humor, the good habit of
It is said that men need humor, like a woman needs is as important as a pretty face.
men need humor, like a woman needs is as important as a pretty face. Abraham Lincoln the 16th President of the United States looks ugly, but he never taboo that, on the contrary, he often took his own appearance humor joke. In the presidential campaign, his opponents attacked his duplicity, intrigue and conspire. Lincoln listened to his face, pointing, said: If I had another face, I will use now this one?
not sent a man without humor, but the good humor of the man must be a good person, and good humor is a woman of rare animals.
(8) the good habit of
smile smile is generous, quiet performance, but also exchanges of passes.
the world famous Hilton Hotel, the founder of the Hilton beginning a business, after years of exploration, finally found a simple, easy, do not spend the capital of the business secret - a smile. Since then, he asked all staff: the hotel itself, no matter what difficulties encountered, the Hilton hotel waiter smiles the sun will always belong to the customer. This bunch of
developed countries in Europe and America, people have to nod and smile to meet, so that people feel very warm to each other. In China, if you are in the street Miss Xiang Yige smile, then you may be said to be Learning from the West, let us extend each other smile.
ancient times, dedicated to all successful people one of the most important quality.
(9) work, and enjoy the good habit of
dedicated people who want to succeed is to treat the basic requirements, a dedicated hard for people not engaged in his work make a difference. American Standard Oil
Achilles Butler has called the small staff, began and no cause for special attention. His professionalism particularly strong, always pay attention to maintain and promote corporate reputation. The total travel time in a hotel do not forget to write in his signature on the bottom, forget the words to write it. To this end, my colleagues call him This is the company's chairman and Rockefeller knew, he invited to dinner Achilles Butler, and called on staff to learn from him. Later, Achilles Butler became the second chairman of Standard Oil.
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