Author / autumn heart
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Hello, I am 31 years old, had a first love feeling good boyfriend, but later as a third party (my fault) separately, and then talked about many times in love, met a very attractive All my men, but all because of various improper fruitless. I lost faith in love, never find that feeling of passion and heart, and even met a good man to me, I also suspect he does not know and a woman, trouble not appeal to me. I'm afraid your life will be like, and finally to old age alone, and occasionally think of these things almost fall apart, asks you to help me!
Autumn Heart Reply:
31-year-old woman, from the is married, so called Cantonese saying goes, the worst. I believe this crisis, you know what, only to turn to me.
both aware of the problem himself, and then they would have to change your mind, watch your tell, should be is excessive perfectionism and self-people, for people with high demands on the situation, unfortunately they forgot to look at ourselves. you both look forward to have a wonderful heart of emotion, romantic and considerate and expect to understand each other to get along with girls, days, how best intentions, many good lover, but, my dear, you perfect? so good man, you have really afford to match? mm high, while in the eye and must not forget to reflect on their own terms, Prince Charming no one wants to, but you also have to be Snow White for the job is not Snow White, Cinderella, at least have to be ah! So you are both one? even, they have to see if they have No luck ah! world has never really perfect, a pair of beautiful partner, is well combined with each other their own synthesis of the perfect fifth, you understand?
addition to adjust their attitude, addition is to determine their goals, to think clearly now, you really what to expect marriage? just want to find a partner, or want to love, under ripe? If you just want to find a mate to all aspects of conditions to measure heart of the affair Do not demanding too much respect to; If you can not accept marriage without love, there is no way to marry and to marry, then efforts to improve their own sound, and then wait for the real life that belongs to you cup of tea, Enron fear Love to, as I said: stand waiting, anti afford lonely, flowers will open mm This requires that you have not waiting for the collapse of the wisdom and courage of your convictions.
others can only give you suggestions save you, the end is your own.
autumn heart, hello. I am now chasing a girl, I really do love her. but she is one of those relatively headstrong girl, I am more we are together hard, but I am willing, but also go all out. can be around friends all say we do not fit, let me give up, choose a man love me more in love get married. I'm afraid the final two people can come together. I 28 years old, prior to chase a girl did not catch up with 3 years experience. I'm afraid this is also the same as last time, after a few years but still not successful. I am the fear of failure and loss. I am very entangled, can you help me answer the next you?
autumn heart replies:
emotional and marriage as shoes, fit or not, comfortable or not, only he knows, so now this girl is worth your wait, but only you know what. In my opinion, to meet a person like yourself are rare, and it is worthy, not to mention, do not let go of one you like, you are bound to encounter a love you more people? hard to get along with a variety of reasons, including her headstrong each maturity, life values, different conflict, the other, but also with your own mind about the character, such as the view of things treatment attitudes, people can grow, including you and her, so in the end, what will happen to this relationship, you need to look at the efforts of both sides, but also to see by chance.
As you fear, if take a few years later is still unsuccessful, how do? Oh, who is not of defeat to success? It is because of failure, the joy of success was obtained contrast, no one can say that a relationship will not succeed, no one dared that fear of failure for a man dating you will be successful mm all, only experience, only the results, do not you?
So, do not be afraid, listen to your heart necessary guidance, good and improve their growth, treat each other, to believe that life will return pays off; bloom or not to ask out, but the kinds of values, watered.
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