Love is two people, a person paying it can only be regarded as a unilateral friendship. A woman born of love, there is no initiative, which allows women to find a boyfriend is a big psychological factor. The following look at the eight psychological, if there do you single?
1, resigned her
her reasons: , because she would not take risks, before she took to the battlefield have told he would lose. She refused to face the feelings of the possible dangers, as her feelings of rejection, is her lack of confidence in the cover-up. Moreover, If she was advised to start a relationship, she quickly admitted: stop hair cut, more feminine, and more to social occasions, to find a man? or her two-thirds of the words are woman may be from the reason: is how childhood trauma? her against what? is a father, grandfather, brother, boss or former boyfriend? she had seen the mother of frequent humiliation, which secretly resolved to never repeat the old tracks? is because she refused to love life hopes and needs, and she had to feel more independent. She wants to be leading their own lives, and she thought no one could meet her needs. might be some people said she looked down at his high, but in fact, she has been hovering around between low self-esteem and conceit.
how to overcome this fear? to understand is that the conquest of men, we must first become master of myself. to face his past.
3, independent of her
Her reason: the agenda, where there is time for men? In fact, she had her own life so full, it is a man in order not to leave any gaps, so that men can not be a place in her life. This extreme self-control desire and the fear of loss of control come from? It is possible that parents like to dictate her orders, the practice is always judged her, always criticizing, always look at her eyes. As a little girl if she when the review of this vision can not say is not a contest between the two forces, learning how to say no.
4, her romantic
her reasons: grew up, also believes that what he is able to get what you want Superman. she may have performed in many areas, smart, strong and clear. but when faced with emotional problems, she was tip of the ivory tower waiting for her prince charming. her fear hidden in the back of romance and pure love. but her life is on the plain challenge. Unfortunately, she will wait forever, because if she does not take that step , no one will go to her. especially when she does not accept the fact: Prince Charming never been a real person, and people are to make mistakes, just as her own.
how to overcome this fear? face Reality: Love alone go to the cinema or to a chat site.
5, Plato's the reason she
her: , close friend of many, all in all, she really know how business relationships, of course, provided it does not involve sex. She was afraid of love but not sex, many women do not recognize this. In the past, however, she is also able to partner embrace the face of this fear. Today, the single has been accepted by all, she simply take this form to avoid sex. As the years passed, her fear of sex will gradually deepen. at least now the The society can not make her complacent. In addition, she worried about being unable to enjoy sex, which she was trapped in the improve the body's sensing capabilities.
6, injured her
her reason: her, and she indulged in the pain of love, can not extricate themselves. She could not get out for some illusory feelings. Or, she always had a dream lover: father, brother or friend. In short, she did not know how to overcome. As in the past the feelings of the victim, she could not master their own lives, can not start a new relationship. she was trapped inside the illusory feelings, so reject the new romance, to continue living in their own fantasy world. she single, but she does not mind alone, but can not start a new relationship.
how to overcome this fear? face of past failures, the failure to be admitted responsibility.
7, the pain of being a mother to her reasons for her
: La characteristics of women, as is her mother, escape the basic needs of a woman an excuse. However, adults need to leave the children home that day, her children may have a serious sense of guilt. because they have been single mothers for She gave up her own happiness, and this is a sacrifice. the children will be difficult to resist the love they think is not good and may even be using violence to try to choking off the rope as soon as possible.
how to overcome This fear? with good wishes and the struggle against maternal and learn to their own lives to know how to love a child that is pushing them to live, let them alone, while he also has his own life.
8, her nurse-based
Her reason: use value, the other party will love her. she often will be attracted to men with scars, and will attempt to heal his wounds. but it is built on the basis of gender relations in pain. her love each other At the same time, feel each other love her. but man is a vampire: and so she paid all the time, he also left, threw her in the side. and she will be painful to himself: so much, he hh ; and this has nothing to do with love.
how to overcome this fear? regain the ability to dominate their lives, learning to love each other to pay rather than pay.
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